Trapped Emotions Definitions

Abandonment: 

A physical abandonment = being left alone; left behind or deserted (this is the type of abandonment that we most often see in childhood).

Emotional abandonment is a subjective emotional state in which people feel undesired, left behind, insecure, discarded, being given up on, withdrew from, emotionally deserted or separated from. It is a feeling of being “left behind” in a non-physical form. People experiencing emotional abandonment may feel at a loss, cut off from a crucial source of sustenance that has been withdrawn, either suddenly, or through a process of erosion.

 

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Anger: 

Anger or wrath is an intense emotional state. It involves a strong uncomfortable and hostile response to a perceived provocation, hurt or threat. … Some view anger as an emotion which triggers part of the fight or flight brain response. Anger is used as a protective mechanism to cover up fear, hurt or sadness.

 

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Anxiety: 

Anxiety is an emotion characterized by an unpleasant state of inner turmoil, often accompanied by nervous behaviour such as pacing back and forth, unpleasant feelings of dread over anticipated events. Anxiety is a feeling of uneasiness and worry, usually generalized and unfocused, as an overreaction to a situation. Anxiety is not the same as fear, which is a response to a real or perceived immediate threat, whereas anxiety involves the expectation of future threat.

 

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​Betrayal: 

Betrayal is the breaking or violation of trust or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship. The betrayed person feels deserted or hurt by a trusted one. Betrayal of another is to be unfaithful in guarding or fulfilling a trust; to be disloyal or violate a confidence, to desert someone who trusts you.

Betrayal of the self is to break integrity, to act against oneʼs morals, to abuse the body or soul.

 

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​Bitterness: 

A harsh, disagreeable or cynical attitude. Being angry or resentful because of hurtful or unfair experiences.

Bitterness = “Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

 

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Blaming: 

Being Blamed is to be held responsible; accused; or held guilty for something. Blaming another is to hold the other person responsible for something, to accuse, to find fault with. Putting responsibility on someone or something else to avoid taking responsibility. This is a key emotion in creating a victim mentality and can cause a deterioration of personal power.

Blaming the self is finding fault with oneself, which can lead to feelings of self-abuse, depression, etc.

 

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​Conflict: 

Internal Conflict is a mental and emotional struggle within the self, arising from the presence of different and opposing emotions relating to a situation that has recently taken place or is in the process of being unfolded. (e.g. He was feeling conflicted about whether or not to take the new job)

External Conflict is to fight, to disagree or to be disagreeable; to struggle or battle against; to antagonize. Prolonged strife or struggle. (e.g. She and her ex-husband experience continual conflict about custody of their children).

 

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Confusion: 

Confusion is the state of being bewildered or unclear, disoriented, foggy thinking, chaos, lack of clearness, a disturbed mental state.

 

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Creative Insecurity: 

Feeling unsafe or untrusting the self about the creation or development of anything- relationships, family, health, money, career and/or artistic endeavors. A feeling of insecurity that arises and blocks any creative process. (e.g. writer having a blockage in the writing process).

 

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​Crying: 

The (often) involuntary act of expressing a strong emotion, a response to pain or suffering (emotional or physical). A response to or expression of helplessness. A physical sensation felt in the throat, chest and/or diaphragm. Often becomes trapped when one does not allow him/herself to cry (i.e. suppressing this reaction or stuffing it down).

 

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Defensiveness: 

A state of resisting attack or protecting oneself; being sensitive to the threat of criticism or injury to one’s ego; being on guard against real or imagined threats to one’s person, physical and/or emotional.

 

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​Depression: 

Depression, a state of low mood in spirits, dejected and aversion to activity, can affect a person’s thoughts, behavior, tendencies, feelings, and sense of well-being. Often a secondary emotion caused by “anger turned inward” at the self and feelings of shame and guilt, etc.

 

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Despair: 

A complete loss of hope, misery, difficult or unable to be helped or comforted, feeling empty.

 

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Discouragement: 

Feeling bad and less able to be productive in life (or in a particular thing), deprived of confidence, hope, or spirit, disheartened, dispirited. Losing the nerve to try or attempt something.

 

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​Disgust: 

Disgust is an emotional response of rejection or revulsion to something  considered offensive, distasteful, or unpleasant. A strong aversion when good taste or moral sense is offended. (e.g. She felt disgusted when the killer was acquitted).

 

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Dread: 

Fear of something that is about to happen; apprehension as to something in the future, usually real but sometimes unknown. (e.g. Many people feel dread at the very thought of speaking in front of an audience. ).

 

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Effort Unreceived: 

When one’s work, achievement, attempts or endeavors are not accepted or recognized; when one’s best effort is not considered good enough; a feeling of being unappreciated. Not feeling approved of or validated.

 

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​Emotional Resonance: 

If you were to walk up to a bell and hit it with a hammer, it would ring for a time. Sometimes, intense emotional energies can leave our DNA ringing like a bell, and this ringing can last for many years, if not all our lives.

 

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Failure: 

When one falls short of success or achievement in something expected, attempted, or desired; (e.g. The failure of a marriage or other relationship, being fired, bankruptcy, performing poorly in athletics, art, academics, etc.).

 

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Fear: 

A strongly distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil or pain; the threat may be real or imagined.

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Forlorn: 

Feeling miserable, sad and lonely by reason of abandonment, desolated or empty, hopeless, forsaken.

 

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Frustration: 

Exasperation; being stuck or unable to progress; feeling blocked from causing a change or achieving an objective or goal.

 

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Grief: 

Intense emotional suffering caused by loss, disaster, misfortune, etc.; an acute sorrow and deep sadness. A universal reaction to bereavement. Also can be feeling harassed, vexed or exasperated (e.g. if someone gives you grief).

 

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​Guilt: 

The feeling of having done wrong or committed an offense. Feeling responsible for the harmful actions of another (e.g., abuse, parents’ divorce, death, etc.) Often accompanied by feelings of depression, shame and self-abuse.

 

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Hatred: 

To loathe; despise; great dislike or aversion. Often comes as a result of “hurt love”. Often hatred is of a situation rather than a person (e.g. hatred of anotherʼs behavior, unjust circumstances, etc.) Self-hatred creates destructive behaviors and illnesses.

 

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Heartache:

Anguish and pain of the heart; distress usually as a result of difficulty or sadness in a relationship. Felt as a crushing or burning physical sensation in the chest.

 

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Helplessness: 

Being unable to help oneself; being without the aid or protection of another. Having little strength or personal power. A common emotion for those suffering from a “victim mentality”. Feeling unable to change oneʼs circumstances or state.

 

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Hopelessness: 

Devoid of hope; having no expectation of good; having no remedy or cure; no prospect of change or improvement.

 

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​Horror: 

A strong emotion of alarm, disgust, or outrage caused by something frightful or shocking (e.g. an event of extreme violence, cruelty, or macabre.)

 

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Humiliation: 

A painful loss of pride, dignity or self-respect; to feel mortified; embarrassed.

 

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Indecisiveness: 

An inability to make a decision; wavering back and forth between one choice or another. Stems from distrust of the self or doubting the ability to make a good decision.

 

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Inherited Emotion: 

This is an emotion that you received from your parents at the time of conception. These can be traced back several generations to the person who originated this emotion. This emotion can be released  from every relative both living and dead who has received this inherited emotion. 

 

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​Insecurity: 

A lack of confidence; self-conscious; shy. Feeling unsafe from danger or ridicule.

 

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Jealousy: 

Resentful and envious of someone’s success, achievements, or advantages. Having suspicious fears; fears of rivalry or unfaithfulness. Results from a fear of not being loved and/or from insecurity.

 

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​Lack of Control: 

Lacking restraint or direction; unable to regulate or command; a feeling that someone or something else determines your course.

 

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Longing: 

To have a strong desire or craving; a yearning or pining; aching for; to miss someone or something; to want something you do not have (e.g. She longed for a different life).

 

 

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Lost: 

Unable to see the correct or acceptable course; having no direction. Physically lost most often shows up from childhood- (e.g. being lost in the woods and canʼt find the way home, etc.) Emotionally lost refers to a feeling of being unable to see what the right decision or direction, being unable to find emotional stability (e.g. He felt lost after his wife died; She hasnʼt done anything with her life, she seems really lost.)

 

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​Love Unreceived: 

A feeling that love expressed is or has been rejected. Feeling unwanted, not cared for; not accepted; a lack of love where it is desired.

 

 

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Low Self-Esteem: 

A low appraisal of oneʼs own worth or value; feeling and focusing on oneʼs flaws; holding a feeling of disrespect for the self; not confident; lack of self-love.

 

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Lust: 

Intense sexual desire or appetite; an overwhelming want or craving (e.g., lust for power); passion; to covet.

 

 

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Nervousness: 

Unnaturally or acutely uneasy or apprehensive; fearful; timid; to feel jumpy or on edge.

 

 

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Overjoy: 

Intense delight or elation which is too overpowering for the body; joy that it is a shock to the system.

 

 

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​Overwhelm: 

To be overpowered in mind or emotion; extreme stress; feeling overpowered with superior force; feeling excessively burdened.

 

 

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Panic: 

A sudden, overwhelming fear that produces hysterical behavior, unreasonably fearful thoughts or physical symptoms such as trembling and hyperventilation; a strong feeling of impending doom.

 

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Peeved: 

Feeling irritated, annoyed, exasperated, irked, aggravated, ticked off.

 

 

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Pride: 

An overly high esteeming of oneself for some real or imagined merit or superiority; vanity (an excessive desire to be noticed, praised, or approved); feeling better than others; haughty; non-teachable; has to be right; expects more credit than earned; or treats others with disdain or contempt. Having a healthy amount of pride (self-respect or self-esteem) is a good thing, and this type of pride usually doesnʼt show up as a trapped emotion (although it may show up if oneʼs healthy pride is injured).

 

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Rejection: 

Feeling denied, refused or rebuffed; discarded as useless or unimportant;cast out; unwanted; forsaken.

 

 

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Resentment: 

A feeling of displeasure or indignation at someone or something regarded as the cause of injury or insult; bitter for having been treated unfairly; unwilling to forgive. Often this emotion comes along with animosity (ill-will that displays itself in action, strong hostility or antagonism).

 

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Sadness: 

Unhappy; sorrowful; mournful; affected by grief.

 

 

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Self-Abuse: 

Abusing the self emotionally includes negative self-talk (e.g. “Iʼm such an idiot.”), blaming the self, etc. Abusing the self physically includes mistreating the body by use of addictive substances; to not care for the body by lack of sleep, proper diet or nutrition; to work beyond what one can or should endure; to punish or tax oneself excessively. This abuse may help atone for “sins”, real or imagined, and usually is driven by anger. Illnesses can be forms of self-abuse (e.g., “I don’t deserve to be healed.”)

 

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Shame: 

A feeling of being wrong, defective or disreputable. The painful feeling of having done or experienced something dishonorable, improper or foolish; disgrace; humiliation; a cause for regret. The lowest vibration of all the emotions. Leads to guilt, depression and even suicide.

 

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​Shock: 

A sudden or violent disturbance of the emotions or sensibilities; extreme surprise; to feel traumatized or stunned.

 

 

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Sorrow: 

A sad regret; distress caused by loss, disappointment or grief; to feel or express grief, unhappiness, or sadness.

 

 

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Stubbornness: 

Being difficult; unbendable; unable or unwilling to forgive; obstinate; headstrong; resistant.

 

 

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Taken for Granted:

Feels treated with careless indifference; not given thanks or for something accomplished, similar to ignored. Terror: Intense, sharp, overmastering fear; extreme fright; alarm.

 

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Unsupported: 

A lack of support, help or encouragement; not provided for by another; not defended when help is needed; feeling the burden is too heavy to bear alone, etc.

 

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Unworthy: 

Not good enough; beneath the dignity of; not commendable or credible; undeserving; not valuable or suitable; unbecoming.

 

 

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​Vulnerability: 

Feeling susceptible to harm, either emotional or physical; unsafe; unstable.

 

 

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Wishy Washy: 

Weak, spiritless; undecided irresolute; without strength of character. To 5 lack conviction; without a backbone.

 

 

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Worry: 

Dwelling on difficulty or troubles; unease or anxiety about a situation or a person; extreme concern over potential problems; concern about a loved one in possible distress.

 

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Worthless: 

Of no importance or value; without excellence of character, quality or esteem; serving no purpose.